How to control how things turn out. Spend a lot of your time thinking negative thoughts and you’ll never control how your life turns out. Keep negative thoughts away by thinking positive thoughts. Negative thoughts are not your nature. So why do they happen? Sadly, lots of people think negative thoughts, and we learn from others all the time.
You know what you don’t want, which provides a contrast to what you want. Focus on what you want. Feel good about it. Negative thoughts and feelings are a clue to what you need to change or fix. Your purpose in life is joy. Stay with what feels good to you.